Yeah, I'd tend to agree. I feel like the Flames are acting rather whiny - I'm supportive of Nenshi's stance on this. Evidently the city isn't hell-bent on surviving with the Saddledome, they're open to a new arena if it makes sense - but the Flames organization, as you said, just keeps playing victim and taking a defeatist stance on the issue.
The arguments that the Saddledome is fine and we don't need a new arena are reasonable, especially with the effects of this downturn still lingering. Just in the back of my mind the prospect of losing the Flames to another city - if they'd ever have the balls to leave - haunts me.
Of course, I'm not one to suggest we spoon-feed billionaires billions whenever they whine, but if we DO get a new arena I wouldn't protest it.